Maybe it’s because there’s such a thing as a gay rights movement, which makes me more aware of these things, or maybe I would’ve put two and two together eventually anyway, but when I watch dudes on the old Soul Train videos these days, some of those cats be lookin’ miiiighty suspect. As in, how [...]

I’m reading over some old posts and I’m just now realizing how often I use the phrase, “…but, and this is a sofa…” without considering that most people probably have no frame of reference. To remedy that, I’m gonna run the post from which that reference comes, written in August, 2004. I got ambushed. There [...]